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Friday, March 9, 2007


   Advice Day: topic: Relationships
Relationships are a part of life. Most of us intend to be in a relationship during our life. This is a troubling road, espetaly if the one we love is away or if we are forbidden to be near them. The are simple thing to help a relationship grow strong.

1. Open Communication: this implies being totally honest with each other. This is especially difficult if it is an online relationship or long distance. The best thing to do is tell about your day and stay faithful.

2. Schedules: yes this may seem tack but it works. Plan events that are simple. If it is long distance or an online find a site that you can play together. Similar to an RPG. RPGs are a simple way for you two to go on an adventure together even though you are far away. Plus if you are a guy it is an easy way to protect your lady.

3. Know the signs: We can’t hide from the fact of an abusive relationship. There are 3 signs you need to be aware of.

1a. No Space: This does not include being clingy. This means that your “partner” gives you no space and you spend every waking moment together.
2b. Domination: this means that one person dictates what to do and that the other has no free will.

3c. Demeaning statement and quick excuses: this means that they call you a name for hanging out with you friends and is either verbally abusive or even physically.

4. Hang out with others: this is the best way to keep a relationship going strong. Hang out with others. Not just your “partner”. This way you not always together and have something to talk about.

5. Meet together: this is to only becaused if you have met each other before. Set a day just once of month to see each other this way it will ease the pain of being far apart.

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