Wednesday, October 20, 2004

Self image and how people preceive each other is realy terrible. Its so easy for person A to see the best in person B and ignore there faults condsidering person B realy lucky and wishing to be them while at the same time person A is concentraiting on all there own bad qualities seeing none of the good. Not realizing thatperson B probably wishes they looked or acted like them. I hope thats not to confusing. I'm saying this cause I have several friends right now who are butiful but have no self confidence whats so ever. Take one, I'm not joking when I say she looks like a model shes butiful. She can were the most amazing clothing normal people wouldn't even think of trying on. She looks like she steped out of a magazinge. Yesterday she was looking down at her stomic and said something like "Look at this its so discusting. I'm so fat. You can see the roles of fat on my stomic. Its so discusting." What? I told her this wasn't true. I mean the girl wears a size 0 clothes. If she's fat I'm a walrus. Then she s worried if her hair looks alright if her makeups okay ect. Or another one of my friends who told me today she was so ugly. That her hair was so puffy and this and that. She has butiful hair and realy nice face and ect. I told her all this but she wouldn't beleive me. I'm not sure if its related to this but everyone who seems to show they have low self asteem realy whants a boyfriend. I mean realy realy badly whants a boyfriend. Boyfriends are all fine and good but you should never feel like you have to have one. Theres nothing wrong with trying to get one but when its such a big part of your life then thats just not a good thing. My second friend that I mentioned when on and on today about how she needed a boyfriend inbetween insulting herself. I told then to get one. I know its not that simple but if you whant a boyfriend do you have anyone in particular in mind because if you do you can work on it. And I don't mean the random guy across the room thats the first person you see. She then asks me if I think she should ask the guy across the room if he would go out with her thats shes been going on and on about for awile. He was standing all of five feet away. We were talking in wispers so he didn't here us but thats another story. I told her I didn't know. Honestly though why do people ask me for relationship adive. I've never actualy been in one so maybe I'm not the best person to ask. I'm at a compleate loss on the subject. Well theres my little rant on self image. Though it got off topic a couple of times. (I sound like I'm in english class saying off topic hmmm...)
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