Saturday, June 25, 2011

   Thinking of the dead
Just stopped by to dump some random thoughts. Nothing terribly exciting or groundbreaking today.

Last weekend, for father's day, I decided to visit some graves of my ancestors. ok - ancestors might not be the perfect word - people I am descended from that died before I was born. Technically accurate use of the word, but ancestors generally implies long past.

I thought I went well prepared. It turned out not so much. The first grave I went to was actually someone I did know - my father-in-law. He actually passed away one year after I married his daughter. We were both happy that we married at a time where he could walk her down the aisle. That one was odd - 15 years since I have been there & I remembered exactly where his brass plate was located. That was the easy one.

The second stop was to visit my mother's father. He died when my mom was about 13. His tombstone is shared with my grandmother who died 38 years later. I had the area, row and plot number. Unfortunately, it was not that easy to see the section numbers and there were over 20 unlabeled rows in that section & going through row 6 counting from the edges and from the center going each way did not result in a find. I finally did find it & noted landmarks to help identify it for future visits. I really like this tombstone because it had pictures of each of them. If you are going to be buried western style, I stronglyu recommend that option. It really made the visit more personal.

At that same cemetery, I also visited my great-grandmother. She was in the main mausoleum. Beautiful building inside. It was nice to visit there. The only drawback was she was on the top row 15-20 feet up. I had to get a big ladder on wheels just to get high enough to take a picture of it.

My final stop was my great grandfather. I was still hoping the rows and plots at that cemetery would be better labeled. Unfortunately it was worse. The section was labeled fine, but within the section there were no obvious rows. It was so bad it looked like they were not even able to run the lawn mower through this section because you never knew when you would come across another ground level marker. I wandered for about half an hour before deciding to head back & as I got back to my motorcycle, I found it. I had parked right next to it. Unfortunately, I had walked behind the tombstone when I started my search so did not see it until I was leaving.

Until next time - take care.

-bunraku
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