Friday, October 28, 2005

Words Suck
I dont wanna bash these ppl who get too upset about things ppl say about them. cuz i know different ppl react in different ways. One thing i want you to think about, is thats there just words, and u shouldnt let things like that control you. if its to the point to where you cant stay in the smae room with it, you need to take control of ur life. just smile, and ignore it all. and i know its hard to stand up again thing ppl say about you, but sometimes u just have to.
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Thursday, October 13, 2005

Not the usall
I know i usally dont put just random post like most site and if i put something i have something personal to say.

but i'd like to take this time to say happy birthday to a very special friend of mine.

Happy Birthday...
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Friday, September 23, 2005

Sticks and Stones may break my bone, but words can KILL
I dont know why ppl say insults are just words, they're alot more...

i think ppl are maniclly depressed for no reason. or that almost everyother problem. if it really was the case of insults just being words, then everybody will be classified as a pussy.

You know, some people just dont realize that every action has an effect in one way or another. Has anyone ever said something to you that just hurt so much, u wanted to break down and cry. and sometimes its not whats said, but the ppl who say it. Im sure almost everyone has, and yet we continue to say the same things to others and making them feel the same way.

Is it to hard so hard to be nice, regardless of how u feel. I know that its hard, i've even been on the end doing the talking, and it doesnt feel good have it come out. its a normal human beavior to make ppl feel smaller then them. but u know, it really doesnt have to be like that. some ppl are go thier entire life being hurt be what ppl say. some even end there own lives. just please, think before u talk, and remember that what always will effect something.
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Monday, September 12, 2005

thanks for nothing
Ok this is something that has been on my mind for a really long time. It all revolves around a series of questions.

What kind of counry do we live in. We're supose to live in the greatest country, and the fact is, is that we live in a country who could care less. Well I really dont wanna talk about the katrina huricane, but that is a good example. and how long it took the US to do anything. and the fact that local and national organizions are the ones doing the most. but it this isant the only thing. there counless number of things that the US couldnt care less about. The US have existed for over 200 years. and it took the US 150 years to give a shit about anyone else. so it may seem at least. that was during World War 2. incase you dont know what went on...that was the holocoust, segrigation of jews. a horrible slaughter. Did we care, so what it had nothing to do with the Us, they're human beings and we thought of them as dirt. It wasnt calles worls war 2 till we came, and y oh y did we get involved. no not cause we came to save the day. cuz we intercepted a message to mexico that promised if they helped them in their "war" they would help them get back the land they lost to the US. Oh no, no one messes with us, so then we came and guess what, we won a war that had to we had nothing to do with except for the fact that we got involoved at the end. well the history books say we won. and the greatest part is bush represents all this and more. he says we're in iraq and other parts of the middle east to help rebuild a country, yeah that more of something to do while we're taking control, and keeping ppl in check. y do u think we've been there so long, to take control of they're oil, and other resourses. isant it funny how gass prices have gone up only while hes been in office. but he makes us think that we have to be there to show our pride. bush represent it all, the fact he doesnt give a shit about anyone, not even his own country.

What kind of world do we live in. Its not only the US that doesnt care, it everyone. and after WW2, the US forms the UN (united nations) that contains around or more then 100 nations. their goal is wolrd peace. but yet they ingnore any nation striken by poverty. yeah who gives a shit about ppl dying in third world countries. its not like they're ppl right. OMG, is this what we as a world think. the UN isant for world peace, they're nothing but a clique.

oh and then theres us as ppl. do we even care. we look at tv and say wow what ahorrble thing, and turn around go about there day and probly forgets about it. sure cause who do u think end up in offices anyways.

a girl in american fell down a well( it was in the news a while back). a really deep well. so deep no one had the resourses to help, in hit national new. ppl all over showed compation, and cries for the helpless little girl. the government steped in and lent support and got her out. yes it was a bad thing, and yes its great they got her out. every year millions of kids die of hunger, disease, beating, and ect in third world countries. Where were their tears, who cried for them. where the local or nation organizations then. no where. no tears, no help. and this isnt decreaseing, infact it grows more and more all the time. and the only worng thing these ppl ever did "wrong" was be born in poverty. but what do we do as ppl, a country, a world. nothing. nothing unless we get something for our troubles. our trouble's heh, they're dying, and we're worried about the trouble it takes to help. just wonderful
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Thursday, September 8, 2005

Cats and Dogs
Why is it that guys and girls are so different. well from my observation, its just on how we react to things. for instance, if 2 ppl in a relationship are having a problem, the girl tends to complain and go on and on about it, but the guy on the other hand tends to want the situation over and done, so quckly looks for a solution. but the the girl is intent on thinking if he doesnt feel the same then hes just being insensitive, or something of that nature.

Life is another issue where both sexes differ. Guy do plan ahead for the future, but more then 2 to 10 years. we like to take it as it come. but girls, have everything in life planed. and usally start around the ages of 6 to 11. everything from the kind of house they want, the whole wedding, and even the name of and how many kids they are r going to have. oh, the guy really isant important at this point.
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Wednesday, September 7, 2005

Know What you Want...
Girls usally at some point make a list on things they want in a guy. the funy part about this is that its not at all what they really want. In some weird instance, there was a guy who actually did have the qualities a certain girl was looking for, she'd get irrotated really fast.. Which leads me to my conclution...girls dont dont what they want...and usally never do till they have it, or had it. example, girls date more wrong guys then the right guys.

will add another topic later.

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9/1/2005
MAKING A RELATIONSHIP WORK

I know you here that sacrifice is the biggest part about being in a relationship. well theres another word that in just as important. and thats comprimise.(word is probly spelled wrong). meaning, yes u have to give up somethings like freetime and other activities, but if the person ur with enjoys doing something you dont like, dont ask them to stop, u should want that person to be happy. you wouldnt want to quit something u like. even tho im sure that most of you might actually be willing to, just realize that there r 2 ppl in the relationship, and both must deal with the other, for better or not.

I cant stress this enough, u need somesort of communication aswell. Dont always use figures of speech, thinking ur understood. this isant healthy, and if u feel affended by something, let the other person know before u start screaming, see if there was some sort of miscoummunication. be clear when u need to be.

stray away from temtation, this is was does it for breakups. even tho u feel that u still wanna be the person, and it was just a mistake, and in the event u wouldnt ever do it again. u loose trust, u hate ur self more then ur bf/gf, and dont think ther are any exceptions. ther arent any. even in the even ur bf/gf says its ok, dont. it shows that maybe the person ur with isant enough for u and vise versa. and if this is you, dont concider urselfs bf and gf, ur fuck buddies. a relationship is with 2 ppl only. dont be stupid. and before one of you wants to stay together but wants to see other ppl to see if really wanna be wiht ur bf/gf, then maybe thats a sign u dont. if ur wanting it to work, this isant the answer. this time alone(completly), and just talk things over, feeling, future goals, what makes u happy, what would make u happy, and so forth. and if ur still uncertain, sleep on it, twice if needed. just take time for urself to go over the situation. and wen ur bf/gf is in the middle of something like this, DONT egerly try to ask them about it, or talk to their friends. just be patient, give them their space, and be ready for anything. one important hint, be optamistic, sometimes ur otpamism influences others.

dont smother them, give them space, i have explain all this on other topics. same with other important topics. see (DATING (for guys and girls))
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Wednesday, August 31, 2005

Difining Who We Are.
whats really funny, is that we arent in charge of how we act or how we dress anymore. really take a good look at it. the first person we think excepts us, we try to fit in, and believe that we are the same way. but we're just acting, we say its just comfortable, but then why didnt u dress the same before u met a certain person or group.

Also, another influence on our "way of life" is music. Music is starting to define every part of life now. the way we talk, dress, the ppl we hang out with. and the most funniest part about all this, is ya'll get mad when ur called something steriotypical. Why is it funny? u ask, because ur making the steriotype for ur self, but yet try to be unique.

Why are ther steriotypes, cause of what we make it. u think that ppl just mad this shit up. take a real a good look at ur self before u wanna say u are ur own person. Dont blade the media, and if they are to blade for any of it, then blame ur self too for following something you saw of tv.

Exaples, dont call someone who dresses in all black a devil warshiper, or someone whos snoby a prep, or someone with a southern accent a hick or red neck. it doesnt help matters.

and when reallity sets in u realize u cant be unique, someone or some group did it first. well if u really wanna be unique, go out in nothing but underware and tie, and be friends with everyperson u meet
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ALL ON YOU
ok, im having some trouble coming up with stuff to talk about, and trust me, i have something to say about everything. i do have stuff im waiting to say, but its not time yet.

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Monday, August 29, 2005

DATING PART TWO (FOR GIRLS)
I'd like to thank everyone who actually gives a @#$%$# about what I have to say, and comment.

OK, not I dont anyexpience from being a girl, but I will give my opinoin from my view. girls, i'd really like ur comments.

Most girls (not all), really dont have trouble getting a bf, or at least have the chance to have one.

Well lets hope that everyone that reads this want to stay with person thier with, and insearch of something long term.

Dont flirt, I dont care how many ppl may say theres nothing wrong with flirting, but there is. its all temptation to cheet. and if u must flirt, dont go overboard. Meaning dont cudle, anykind of kiss (ANYKIND), dont touch private areas nore show them, and the list kinda goes on. if u would want ur bf doing it, then maybe u shouldnt either.

And dont keep secrets. i know there somethings that maybe should be talked about, and i understand all that. at some point in a relationship, u should be able to say pertty much everything. now Im not saying to be an openbook to ur bf, just alittle open. and im sure u know this, just build trust.

dont always expect too much from ur bf. not everyone has money or enough to be spending. just be happy to be with the person and the time u get together. and dont get all mad just cuz ur date took u to mcdonalds and not a fancy resturant. its hard enough to have money, but when u do, u wanna try to keep something.

and i stress this alot. dont expect to be the most important thing in ur bf's life. sometimes ppl just need time alone. its not anything against you as a person or towards the relationship.

ok, im gonna give a secret away, u may or may not know this, but guys like it when their gf is jealous. it makes them feel worth being with. and i know girls get jealous anyway, but try to control ur self and not go overboard. example: a girl sits on ur lap, dont scream and push the other girl off( i've seen it done) if ur bf doesnt push her off or at least attept to, get mad at him.

one more thing, if ur mad at ur bf, and he hasnt got a clue why, then let him know y, and y ur hurt or angry. ppl learn fromm mistake, but if they dont realize what mistake to learn from then all hell breaks loose.
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Thursday, August 25, 2005

Love
Wow, now this is a touchy subject to some people. Before I go in to my rant I would like to say I do believe in love as well as true love, and falling in love, and being in love.

ok, but there is something that is nothing but myth. Love at first sight. I mean if u really look at it, when u fall in love u reallize ur feeling towards someone in different envirments, and different ways. not at when u look at someone for the first time. well i've heard this b4 "my parents met and fell in love and got married in within 2 weeks". well allow me to explain. two ppl met, they did not falling love, they were attracted to eachother, and possibly became enphatuated with one another. then this enphatuation made them do something irrationaly. which was to get married. well luckly they did evenetully did fall in love but were so ephetuated, they didnt realize the change. these 2 ppl were luckt that did fall in love, but i garentee u they dod not fall in love at first sight.

OK here somethine else that is so annoying. wen u ppl say u love someone, and ur reasoning is just so moronic. just cuz u think someone is hott and has a nice ass doesnt constitue love. that isant love, its lust. And lust in it self is a whole diffent topic in it self.

and girls, dont think he loves u cuz he wants to have sex with you. he says he loves you so he can have sex with you. i mean really, it doesnt take a rocket sciecntist to figure it out. if there is love there, he'll wait, and so should you.

in closing with this topic, i'd like to add that to be in love does hurt, in any possible way imaginable. Losing someone, and the biggest one of all, having to give someone up. that is the hardest thing to do, and I truly believe that no one should ever be asked to do that. also, dont thorw the word LOVE around, ppl get hurt, and its always a risk. ALWAYS. and try to rememeber, ppl can, and do change, sometimes u change differently and other times u change together.

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Actually Dealing With Suicide

Thaughts of killing ur self is getting more and more common youngst young teenagers. And its just horrible. Its so hard sometimes, and you dont know what to do. And you dont want anyone to know. The really bad thing is that sometimes ur not looking for a solution, and u might feel like u need the emotional pain. I wanna touch this subject from a slight different view.

I truly know how it feels to want to die, thinking that no one cares. But one thing is that no matter how much u believe that no one cares, but theres always is someone.

If your actually dealing with this, then you dont wanna talk to anyone about it, and you dont want anyone to find out. But to tell you the truth, it does help to talk to someone. If your not wanting anyone to find out, dont talk to paid counclers. they are bound my law to tell parents. Its just not good to hold this in, I know you might like you have everything under control, but if you truly did, then these thougts wouldnt be ciculating in ur head. and sometimes u really do need professional help. its truly ok, no ones gonna think ur crazy or weird.

I know that theres actual quick fix, but let time be your healer. Just realize that not everyday is gonna hurt, theres a happy day out there, live for it. Just think about it, there are ppl that care, and that will be hurt for a very long time. I know that it hurts but no matter how much u dont wanna believe it, ur not always gonna feel like this. Dont take a way out that'll effect u forever, for a tepmorary problem.
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