Tuesday, August 23, 2005

Cliques
I think im spelling it right...?

defined as a group of ppl within aa society such as a school or a church. aand the ppl in the clique act the same, look the same, and if u not excepted they usally let u know very harsh.

some may not realize it but u probly are in a clique, and others may say they dress how i want, well take a good look at the ppl u hang out with most, ur outfits match pretty much. and its not like u planed it, it just happened. and honestly a clique can be the best or most evil thing to happen to you. and you cant avoid them, even when u think u r. it just makes me sick how ppl r hurt over this. truthfully unexeptence hurts anyone, and may even cause horrifing emoional scaring. and theres reaally nothing you can do about it. its really sad.

i almost dont know what i can tell you about it, just be aware it can happen and does happen everyday. just love one another, try no to cast judgement, and be open minded. you'd hate to be treated like that.

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SEX

ok, im sure everyones gonna love this subject. and for some reason ppl think that just cuz u "love" someone, means u can or should be fucking them. well how over rated. something i wanna say to u girls. dont fall for the bull shit guys give you just 2 get in ur pants. if ur a teenage girland a teenage guy or older is giving reasons y it isant bad to have sex then thats all they want. they're not wanting to express their love, and no they dont know u asa well as they're saying. dont fall for it. sex chaanges ppl, different for guys and girls.

sex is probly the number paass time in small towns and with the rest of the teenage wolrd.

i know its sounds like im degrading guys, but im not. not all guys are pervs. but if a guy waants to fuck you, they'll say anything to get it, even those 3 lovely words."I Love You". and that does it sometimes.

now dont go out thinking that every guy that shows an interest just wants to hump you. not every guy is like that. trust me.

and guys, dont give in to those erges, i know its very hard to not think about it, but try. does fucking someone or even 5 girls a week all that great. whatever happened to just wanting to hold one another, or even just wanting to hear the others voice. and if ur the kind of guy who says "I need to", well then ur lying to ur self. Just fucking masturebate and i bet you ur urges willstop for abit. and it didnt matter b4. cuz someday u'll realize that it just wasnt worth it. and thats for both guys and girls. take this advise and things wont suck so bad.

and one last thing, no means no. not try harder or yes. its no.

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DATING PART ONE (FOR GUYS)

ok, ur gf is mad at you and is not telling u. one thing i want you guys to come to terms with is that WE ARE STUPID. did u get that, as u should know the things that we say may not make sence and we will not remember things that happened, and more impotantly we dont realize others feelings sometimes. how to prevent this::

OMG, dont talk about ex's. u may be tring to say u like her more or that ur current gf is better then ur last. well either way, if she realizes what ur sying or not, she doent like it. shes with you and doent wanna hear about someone that u use to like. girls get jealous very easily, and may not say anything. which is y u dont know wat it is u can say ur srry for.

dont look at another girl, at all. with her or not. she haas freind u probly dont know about, so just dont. again everything that u do to fuck things uup u will not be told. for somereason girls think that we can tell when they get mad, and get even mader that u dont know.

dont bug her, she has a life, and even tho u are apart of it and are important, u r not #1 priority all the time. i know its hard to hear that but think about it, u have ur own stuff and so does she. ur not married, give her space. and if she tells u that, dont get all balistic cuz u think shes tring to tell u something. shes probly not, and is really telling u that she needs her space. nothing more

BE SUPPORTIVE. i cant say that enough. if u dont like something she does, its ok to voice ur opinion, but dont belittle anything, and even if u dont like it, support her and aways be there for her.

dont be pervy, u sick fucks. if shes not reaady dont try to convince otherwise. u may be a good debater, but no meanas no. and sex isant the only thing that no means no, remember that.

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YOU CHEATED AND YOU WANNA TELL YOU BF/GF

first before i say what im gonna say. im gonna cover my ass and say that i have not cheated on my gf, and dont plan to ever.

ok now...so u cheated, or even madeout with ur friends bf/gf. and the first thing u wanna do is tell the truth...y cuz tv says u should, or u just plainly feel guilty. well u should, but that doesnt mean u have to hurt someone else. what ur really doing is wanting to make ur self feel better, and not tring to be honest. and telling the truth in these situations kills all kinds of relationships. I understand u love the person and u wanna be honest cuz that wat u want in return. well i know this sounds harsh but wat they dont know wont hurt them.

ok first off u alreay feel bad, meaing ur already taking ur beating. good u deserve it, but does the other person desever to feel misrible. really, if u still wanna be with the person then u learned from ur mistake and hopefully wont do it again, if it does happen again no ones perfect. got it... NO ONE!!! but if this is a proble that just keeps reaccuring but u still wanna be with this person. well maybe ur just not ready to stay with just one person, and sooner or later u will get caught, and thats when the shit hits the fan.

Tips on how to avoid something from happening:

dont convide in someone for support, u staaarted the mess, and ur resposible, and plus ur friend might just feel like the person need to know and that a whole other topic to talk about.

ok u have a gf/bf, and u plan on staying with then for a while. dont hang out with ur attractive freinds. or especailly flirt. it causes jealousy, anger, and tempation. i know there are some ppl out who are saying that its urrs personality to flirt and u dont see anythng wrong with that. well ther is, u need to stop. ur not single anymore, and if u thing that u cant, then ur just not ready for long term relationships.

if u think its wrong, it probly is. so stop, u poor motherfucker.

something u might wanna try. u give ur friends hugs and ur gf/bf has a problem. well i hate 2 be blunt but its probly cuz girls have boobs. and what are touching when u hug... ok try this, if u just wanna hug ur friend try a side hug. the only thing that actually touches are ur shoulders and its a start.

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I HATE MYSELF AND THE WORLD BLAH BLAH BLAH

ok, i really cant stand the dumbasses who sit there a say im so gothic, and i wanna kill myself. now i realize ppl really do have problems, but others just dont and just want the attention. now listen very very clear, if someone asks you "do u care if I kill myself", dont get all concerned and worried. most of time they just want the attention like i said b4, and just cause someone cuts themselves doesnt mean there depressed, or suicidle, especailly if they make it very obvioous or even talk about. thats when u know this person is full of BS and probly retarted to boot. someone who cuts and is seriously hurting emotionaly, is very privite about it. and tries that avoid the topic, unless itts some sort of cry for help.

and you ppl who aare just too emotional and are depressed caause u dont get along with ur parent or something like. first off ur life isaant as bad as it could be, theres always 2morrow, and find someone to talk to, not everybody, somebody, thats only one person. and make sure its someone u can trust, and not someone who u think is hot or something of that nature. ppl like to take advangaage of ppl iin thos kinds of situations. someone like a very good freind, a school councler. aand thy to fix things, not make em worse. otherwise dont even bother talking about it. with you not wanting thins to be better have already condemed a good future relationship.
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DATING



* DO Bathe. Every day. Personal hygiene is important. No one wants a date who smells like yesterday's garbage. And this includes washing behind your ears and brushing your teeth! Plus, either shave or have your beard/goatee trimmed neatly.
* DO make it a habit to wear clean clothes every day, especially when you are trying to make an impression on someone.
* DO listen to your date and give encouraging remarks to what she says. No one likes to talk to a wall.
* DO make an effort to watch the anime she may like, even if you think its a waste of time. Or encourage her to watch some anime that you both may like, especially if she is not an avid anime fan like you are.
* DO respect a girl's wishes if she doesn't like hentai. It's a rare woman who considers La Blue Girl one of her favorite hentai series.





* DO put a little effort in your appearance. Put on a little makeup, and dress a little more feminine by putting away those anime T-shirts and combat boots. (Wear contacts if you have them!)
* DO be a bit more tolerant and patient with your otaku than normal human beings. Most of the male otaku species doesn't know how to act with 3D women, so they will be confused and not really know what to say or do.
* DO try to get your otaku out of the house, away from his TV, DVD player and VCR. Other activities exist out there, and the exercise will do him good. Try to get some color in those cheeks!
* DO try to read up a little more about the anime genre so conversations don't go stale, and you don't look like a complete idiot in your date's eyes!





* DON'T leave your house without a box of Kleenex, especially if you are prone to spontaneous nosebleeds.
* DON'T don't run the risk of getting too close on a date or run the risk of getting a Naru belt in the head for accidentally bumping into something
* DON'T have the attitude that Dragonball Z is the alpha and the omega of anime. Be open to other titles.
* DON'T condemn or tease your date if she really likes Sailormoon and likes other shoujo or magical girl anime titles. You will either get a deadly glare or be hit in the head by the Interdimentional Baka Hammer.
* DON'T monopolize your conversations by talking about the history of mecha armor in anime or the perky Gainax bounce of your favorite female anime character.
* DON'T compare your date with another woman or 2D anime character, especially if she is sensitive about her looks. (Hint: most women are.)
* DON'T watch hentai on the first date.



# DON'T be too surprised or shocked about the types of anime the otaku likes. If you don't like a particular type of anime and the otaku does, try and make an intelligent discussion out of it, rather than by just responding, "Ewwwww, groooss!"
# DON'T ever, ever say, "Oh, you mean you watch cartoons?"
# DON'T run away when he admits that he likes and really gets into watching magical girl anime.
# DON'T ever say to your date, "Well ... Tamahome was a LOT more romantic than you are." Remember, Tamahome did beat his girlfriend up once and break her arm.
# DON'T wear skimpy cosplay costumes on the first date, or your otaku will use up all of his Kleenex he brought with him!
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Sunday, August 14, 2005

awwww, pwity witle bair

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