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Wednesday, November 2, 2005
Sexual Assault
This is really hard to write about. im not even using what i had writen down originaly.
rape isant the word when it comes to sexual assault, but it hurts all the same. it doesnt hurt till u ask why. then every illogical reason comes into ur head, such as self-blame, stupidity, and ect. in most cases it isant something that could have been prevented. and its not something that can be cured, or be treated with a quick fix. and its really hard to tell others cause if they havent gone through it, they just dont understand each emotion. but the first real step in helping is telling someone. rather it be a close friend, a teacher, councler, parent, ect. and the more open you get, the easier it gets. but usally u dont want ppl to feel srry for you. and your afraid ppl will put u down cuz of it. the bad thing is that ppl do, so i knows its not easy...::deep breath::...this is the first i've said anything about it that wasnt a really close friend or a professional. and that totals 3 ppl. I not using this to tell others, im wnanting to help others. the pain is unbarable sometimes, but in some strange way, ita a lesson of life that no one should learn. and there is no easy way about it. and to those who cant relate to this but know someone who is stugling with it, just be there for suport, remind them that they're safe now, and you'll be there every step of the way. be a hand to hold, the shoulder to lean on, and an ear to listen with out jugment. it helps....quite a bit.
something to remember is not to let something that happened to you in past hurt as much or control you. dont let them hurt you now. rise and show that ur better then that....
its hard to say more,but i will put more at some point
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