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Saturday, May 26, 2007


Hey (rant)
Hey guys,
have you ever noticed that when we look at ourselves we see ourselves from someone elses eyes. We have gained the opinion we have of ourselves form someone else. When someone else says we're beautiful we think we're beautiful. When someone else thinks we're smart we think we're somart. So whenever we blame a person for thining too highly of themselves its our fault because we thought of them that way. But this same action can have an opposite effect. When we say someone else is ugly they think thier ugly. When we think someon else is stupid they think their stupid. So all in all what we say/think/do has an effect on the poeple around us everyday. (stating the obvious) The difference is that the effect may be good or bad depending on us. I don't believe anyone in this world intentionally hurts people (though some think otherwise) Think about it people talk about a geek and she/he has low self esteeem but when the geek gets a makeover and she has the confidence of a lion. Why? Because at that point we think of her that way. Everyone in this world has insecurities there is no one in the world without them. And when we poke and tear at them we destroy (self concept) them and someone eventually comes along to destroy (self concept) us. That's why we need to be more careful wih our words. But since i know not everyone in the world does this/ I'll say that before we start trusting opinions other people make about us we need to make our own opinion about ourselves. Then we needx to stay true to that opnion because if we lived by others opinions of us we sould be living in heck more than half of the time. That's because their opinion of us is swayed easily becuase they don't know us. Only we know us and have the right to judge ourselves.
Alright sorry about that but i was um...in the ranting mood i guess
anysways ttyl
I will repost a poem later

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