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Friday, December 3, 2004
With good news always comes some bad...
First of all, I would like to give BIG thanks and a BIG hug to all those people who commented last time! Thanks! ^-^
Second of all, my week got progessively worse, and it would only take me hours ot explain why, so I'll just move on. Let's just say substitute teachers are easily stressed - much more than you would normally think. But today was all right - I went to my friend's party and had a great time! Woohoo!
But there is ONE problem, that I hope you don't mind if I rant about...
MY FRIEND. My friend, has been my friend for a while. As some of you may know, we've all recently moved onto secondary school, and things are beginning to change. I was talking to this girl I know (who isn't the nicest of people, let's just say that) and she told me that my friend had been saying how we had all ditched her and were all ignoring her. Now, this is true in some aspects.
ONE) We did not ditch her, or at least, I didn't. My other two friends walked off very fast and I was left to walk with my friend. Then she got annoyed with them and then said she wasn't walking with us anymore so then she was making her mum give her a lift every morning - then she went and told everyone we had ditched her.
TWO) She says we all ignore her. The fact is, at this moment, no one can be your best friend: because a best friend is someone you know like the back of your hand. Seeing as everyone's changing, that's impossible. We all try to socialise and make new friends so we can't focus on one person anymore. Every time I talk to someone else, my friend doesn't try to talk to them and then she feels ignored and starts complaining about how no one lieks her and everyone says hi to me but no one says hi to her (when she doesn't really try to make friends at all) and then she says how no one listens to her - and I do try but I can never listen to anyone for too long (because that's just how I am)
The only girl whose ever stuck by her, she acts really horrible towards, and then she just says 'oh I don't know why people don't like me' and she's rather big headed and boasts about all the stuff she has and all the things she can do, and she thinks that she's really nice but she really isn't.
So the question is, what shall I do?
She's been my friend for years, but I want to socialise with other people instead of sticking by her and pretending that everything she says is super interesting (she talks about ice hockey. All the time. Literally), I don't think i can do that anymore, but I don't want to lose her and make her feel more neglected than she already thinks she is.
PLEASE HELP ME, CUS I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I'm so sorry for ranting on like this, but I have no one else to turn to, and no one else nice enough to give me good advice. Thanks...if you haven't already ran from this super long post yet...lol *hugz*
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