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ok, first off, i'm not one to judge people as a person, but i do judge people's desissions.
so i was talking to a friend on the phone today (sorry trying to keep names confedentail) it's here b-day so i called to wish her happy birthday. so we palyed musical phones because as most of you know, i moved from Arizona to Arkansas with by b/f. so a lot of people wanted to say hi to me, i have no problem with this. until it's finally gets to a really close friend, and i asked her how she was doing she tells me she is pregnant...... now, like i said i dont judge people, i just have problems with some decissions that are made by said people. so naturally i congratulate her. then the little light clicked on..."she's 2 and a half years younger than me...." so she had to go home apparently and the phone got handed back to the birthday girl. so we got to talking and it turns out that the father of the baby is her b/f, who we convinced my now pregnant firend that he was bad news and that his abusiveness may get her seriously hurt or into a shit-load of trouble (RED-FLAG) eventually. but then a week after my firend broke up with him he thereatened to kill himself.....OK!!! 1)i would have left him there to kill himself, people that are that abusive and are constantly od-ing on meds dont need to be breeding, stupidity only breeds more stupidity. 2) he has a mental condition that impeades his judgement and his ability to think rationally. so my friend, afraid that he would kill himself decided to go back out with him. ok, i figure whatever, it's her life, let her make her own mistakes. so i find out tonight that she's pregnant becasue this guy LIED TO HER saying that he was going starel!!! ok, i'm sorry if this sounds over dramatic, but even if the ass says he's going starel you can always go to a damn sperm bank when you can actually fucking take care of the kid, not when you are a damn junoir in HIGH SCHOOL!!!!!! HAS NO ONE FUCKING HEARD OF PROTECTION ANYMORE?!!?!?!?!? 2 OF MY CLOSE FRIENDS ARE PREGNANT BECAUSE OF A FRIKEN LAPSE OF JUDGEMENT!!!! IF YOU ARE ALONE WITH YOUR BOYFIREND OR GIRLFRIEND AND PLAN ON DOING THAT SORT OF THING!!! for god sakes please use protection people, it's common sence. CONDOMS, THE PILL, SPERMICIDES, WHATEVER, IF YOU HAVE IT USE IT, IF YOU DONT, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DONT HAVE SEX!!!!! I AM SICK OF TEENS MAKING STUPID DECISSIONS THAT ARE GUARENTEED TO RUIN THEIR LIVES!!! it's not my desission to say "YOU, BE ABSINATE!!" i cant do that, it's not my life, i have no power over you, but please if you're gonna do something stupid, please do it responsibly. it's like under-age drinking, i don't care if you do it, just dont do soemthing to get yourself in trouble while your drunk off your asses. AND DONT EVEN SAY "you should take your own advice" I DO TAKE MY OWN ADVICE, EVERYTHING I HAVE DONE IN THE PAST 2 YEARS I HAVE DONE KNOWING FULLY WHAT I WAS GETTING INTO! i am doing the best i can in the situation i am in, and to be honest i wouldnt trade it for anything. i'm happy with the way my life is. a baby isnt a damn toy, you cant just say "ooooo i want that" becasue chances are that you're not ready for that responisbitity. it just seems that no one thinks of the possable outcome of their actios anymore, i really dont care "ooo but he/she might leave me if i dont" ok fine let the jerk-off leave you, if he or she says that then they are only in that relationship for one thing....SEX! and you need to get away from that person, becasue they may pressure you into something you will later regret. omg i sound like my health teacher... all i'm trying to say is think things throught before you do something, please.... just think. dont have sex becasue it seems like a good idea at the time, when it's the right time, you'll know. and high school isn't the right time, trust me. i've seen so many unwanted teen pregnancies in my high school careers that it's not freakin' funny anymore. and i know for a fact that most of them either had a self abortion, did something stupid and killed the baby, or went full term and put it up for aboption. I personally am totally against both abortion of any kind and placing an unwanted child up for adoption. ok, bottom line, ignorance and lapse of judgement are no excuse to kill or abandon your baby. it's just wrong to bring a life into this world then say you dont want it. and dont place the blaim on the guy, it's not his fault entierly, you could have said "you need to use a condom" or my personal favorite "this doesnt feel right, i dont want to do this, what if...." OK FUCKING THINK BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING!!!!!!!
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SICK OF F*CKING STUPIDITY!!!!!!!!!