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Monday, June 28, 2004


   Life




Finally another post. ^^

I'm not sure if I mentioned this here but my parents are getting devorced. My mom went to live with my grandma back in October, and has finally gotten an apartment. I've been to it too, its very nice. I plan to live with her for the majority of the time. I took pictures of it a few days ago. I'll have to post them once I get them developed.

Anyway, I just recently found out from my mom that my dad is trying to get full custody of my brother and I. She picked up a 4 sheet document on crap my dad had written down with his attorny. Apparentlly it says my mom was never around, she beat us, and didn't care about our education. These are all lies. This really pisses me off. I never thought he could go so low. My dad has no idea we know.

What really gets to me is the fact that he never mentions what hes doing about all this to my brother and I, when we are the main concern within this whole ordeal. Just the other day he said he had to go to a "business meeting", which would be more defined as a meeting with his attorny.

He doesn't seem to understand that we're old enough to know whats going on and how to cope with it. My brother and I have no problem with the devorce, I actually think its the best idea. Hes taking it the worst. My mom has told me that in the past he said that we didn't understand, and she tried to explain to him that we really did, but he doesn't seem to listen to what he doesn't want to hear. It just gets on my nerves now.

I've also noticed that hes trying to brib me to stay here, so obviosly he knows that I don't want to permenantly stay in this house. Hes always trying to buy me things, and serve us food.

I still haven't fully discussed the fact that I am moving in with my mom with him yet, because there are still a few more things I'd like to find out first. He can't deside for me anyway, I'll be 18 in three months. I have the right to choose where I end up. I think my brother still has a choice aswell.

I have no idea what my dad is going to do when we move out and live our own lives. Hes trying to hold on to the past becuase when we were younger he was always working and messing around with his damn race car. Jordan(my brother)and I spent most of the time with our mom. Now hes trying to make up for lost time, and we don't need that much attention anymore. My mom also told him this but he doesn't listen. -_-

So yeah, life is complicating.

On another note, my grandparents, aunt, uncle, and two little cousins are coming here July 21st from Phoenix, AZ. I'm not looking forward to this as much as I was a few months ago because I know they'd prefer me to stay with him, mainly because he's family. My uncle actually told me through e-mail to not let my mom talk me out of going to college..so this leads me to believe that my dad's been telling them what he put down in that document, about her not caring about my education. My mom is actually the one who encouraged me to go to Tri-C(Cuyahoga Community College)to take Japanese. Which I am going to do.

Hm, it looks like I kinda jumped around with that subject. ^^;








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