Konnichiwa,
I don’t have any news about my friends. I can’t watch television or reading newspaper in my home stay. But I hope, the suspect will find soon…
Btw, my younger sis, Pita, will follow POM ( Pekan Orientasi Mahasiwa -Student orientation Weeks). I don’t know is in another country also having same event like POM in Indonesia. In this week (actually only start from Wednesday till Friday), new student will introduced with college, lecture, lesson introduction, and many rules in college.
BUT, normally between the session (seminar), junior student will pressed by senior student. Senior will shout at them and looking for junior mistakes to reprimanded them. Ugh… I HATE THIS PART! There is no physicals punishment. Only shout and anger from senior that they must accept without any complain. Senior will ask male to cut their hair , and for female , they must tie their hair as 9 different parts with different ribbon. Bring many things like art, looking for 1000 signature from friends and senior . Off course to get senior signature, they must ready to do senior’s order, whatever it is (singing, writing love letter, etc) ><;;
The most stupid thing in this event is the Senior's RULES:
1. Senior is never wrong!
2. Junior must obey senior in any situation
3. If senior make mistakes, look rules number one.
See? How do U think? Is that stupid? Senior says they punish junior , give them many jobs in order to make them united and solid . Really? Is that work? Maybe yes… junior will be solid team, because they already pass sad and happy time together. BUT… will they hate senior? Like my feeling now. I was hate my senior . That's why I try to forgive them now. I know its hard. But I must able to forgive them. Even though now I already become senior and if I want, I can do the same thing like my senior into my junior. BUT I HATE THAT!
If I don’t like something, I WILL NOT do that with other people.
I need Ur advice.
Do in Ur country have another method for new student to make them united without any anger inside? Pls help me….
PS
: @ Whitecat : I really want to visit Ur site. But I Can’t. I don’t know why, its only 1 hours and I still can’t open Ur profile. OMG.. I’m so sorry….. I know U always visit my site and put nice comment. But I’m promise, I’ll try my best to visit Ur site every time I online. Thx
Song of the Day
Ost Anastasia - At the Beginning
Quote of the Day
"Kind words and forgiving of faults are better than Sadaqah (charity) followed by injury. And Allah is Rich (Free of all needs) and He is Most-Forbearing"
Translation Surah Al-Baqarah 263
Picture of the Day
My feeling is still dark now. I want to meet this great teacher and share with him my feeling. I meet great groups who able to make my wish come true. Thx to all member. Love U guys!
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