Tuesday, June 20, 2006

A cup of cold coffee, yesterday's mail.
A bad love like this is always bound to fail.
Your love meant trouble from the day we met.
If you want your things, they're on the front step.
I Should've Known Better- Nickle Creek

Hokay.... So... Im back... *throws party for self for lack of anything better to do*

The weekend wasnt entierly hell... I was ready to beat me sisters at one point for a stupid argument they were having over a chair and who got to sit in it... Supposedly the chair was in "The Perfect Spot"... It had shade and a footrest... So anyway... anytime either of them got up the other would steal the chair and not move till the other violently removed them. That part was kinda funny... but the argument wasnt so much.... It was down right stupid... So at one point I stood up... took the chair I was sitting in... Put it right beside the other one and told them to be nice and try to refrain from poking each other.

Yeah... Im a smart big sister like that... They both gave me dirty looks for solving the problem.

Did I mention this fight happened around a fire? And we had sticks for roasting hot dogs? Anyway... that wasnt my favorite annoyance...

Note: Otherwise it was a good visit... I just tend to get this murderous streak when my sisters push the line...

So... Me, Mom, Dad and sister #1 are watching Miami Ink... Me as I like tattoos... Mom and Dad as Im guessing they found it interesting and like to make fun of people for the reasons (never said I agreed with them... I kept my mouth shut) and sister #1 as I think she was interested and there was nothing better to do at the time. Sister #2 was off playing a game on the comp. ANYWAY... Were all sitting nice and calm watchin TLC... and my phone buzzes... I open it up... See its Stacie and shut the phone as the phone calls from her usually start with "Im bored.. what you doing?"

Now... I had told her I was going home for the weekend so I figure as I visit my family once in a blue moon its prolly a good reason to avoid calls like that. 15 to 25 minutes of me going "Uh huh... Uh huh... oh really?... well thats not so cool.... Uh huh... uh huh... Ok bye"

So I ignore the first call and about three minutes later she calls again... I figure its a little weird as usually when I ignore the phone people dont try back in that short of a time period... Not including my parents... So I answer the phone thinking something happened. Went something like
Sita: Hello?
Stacie: Hi... whatcha doin?
Sita: Watching TV with my family...
Stacie: Oh. Im bored.
Sita: Thats nice... Im going to go back and watch TV with my family now... But I should be back in RD tomorrow...
Stacie: Oh... well I wont be.
Sita: Oh? Where are you going?
Stacie: I dont know. I just wont be here.
Sita: Ok... then... have fun?
Stacie: Oh I will
Sita: Ok then. Talk to you later.
Stacie: bye.
*Click*

I just dont like people expecting me to drop everything when they want attention. It isnt fair to me... Expecially when I'm doing something like spending time with my family. I know the way it all worked out I may have hurt her feelings but at the same time I think she lacks a certain respect to the situation I was in. If shes busy with friends or family I dont expect her to drop everything and talk to me... So I dont think its fair she expect me to do that.

Its more or less come to the point... mostly only concerning my time with my family and Zanorich... If I get a call in the middle of qualitly time... and in the first ten words "Bored" is mentioned... Im hanging up.

Is this so wrong?
Sita
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