Friday, June 16, 2006

   Art of Learning... D' Best one that i've ever written
the Art of learning *gee the best one ive ever written* art of healing
" I`ve learned to forgive... and now my injuries are finally healing... I’ve decided to make it a lesson rather than to forget and now the alter`d feelings have subsided"

its not all about learning.. but realizing

that things happens for a certain reason

whether if its painful , sad or joyous laughter that exist for only and about a minute.. we may not realize everything but one by one they would soon all come.. it is quite true that there's a certain time for everything... and although we may think that it is quite frustrating and unfair to bear such tormenting accounts geez we dont have any choice but to find several ways to avoid such mistakes and more often than not it would lead to another mistake then another then another for aslong as there exist any hatred and greediness in you , you would never find the right path in this labyrinth... sure.. you want to forget everything but you just cant, all the pain you've endured and still enduring... you have to fight those in a right manner... and take time to heal...

+If you've fallen inlove and got out of it and the pain is stil there and you think to yourself that you'd never love again (bcoz of the pain you felt back there) you can say it all you want, but you know what? you would still love again whether it is with the same person or the other.. the point is every injury heals.. (it would heal even if it takes a 100yrs it would.. and it is up to you if you want to.. you cant be healed from acidity if you keep on eating foods which contain acids and thats the same with love its up to you it is your choice, if you cant be healed by using robitusin why not try solmux , there exist several ways)

+if you had been betrayed and you swore to never trust anyone again then ive got something to say to you.. you've been a real friend and someone had been betrayed and she/he sad that he/she does not trust you coz he/she thinks people are untrustworthy (wouldnt that insult you) how would you help her trust you if he/she had closed his/her door from the outside world (its the same with you, not all people are alike) some you can trust and some you shouldnt either way it will teach you to becareful ,save important things to yourself, and learn to trust again

+If somebody has stolen something from you (w/c is likely the lesson above) if you can get them back, then go get it(things) if its a person think! is she/he really yours, how can you say he's/she's yours you dont own them right? but you feel pain.. then why dont you ask that person , talk to that person , find out things you would want to know and be sure to be specific! (you dont want to jump to conclusions)if they say yes i love u im yours then here is something for you if he's/she's really yours.. then why do you have to get them back right? they would immediately(or it may take some time) to come to you (this is commomn sense for girls who hail the words of a man's genius schemes)if the person says that he/she is not yours Let them go! dont be too obsessive(or things will turn out ugly, and you will hurt people in return)

+If some one hurt you and done you wrong learn to forgive, I'm sure you've hurt other people too intentionally or not , this shows that human beings are not perfect and they can never be, the right thing to do is to do the right thing (you see the main advise is really the answer) you should forgive them as you deserve to be forgiven.

+if youre sick of your life then why dont you change it, study, find a job (if someones holding you back, fight for your rights)

+If youre sick of living and you want to die..Now dont do that.. you might be suffering now but dont you recall those happy moments, when you were still able to laugh and you were so joyful (you can still go back, you can still change, aslong as you have the body,the heart,the mind,and the soul,you can still change, it is never to late,)
It will only be too late if you kill yourself, dont you know the consequences, do you think your spirit would be put to rest?!, once you commit suicide, you are bound to repeat the same thing all over again everyday and for all eternity, think about it.. arent you willing to suffer 100 years or do you want to suffer for 10thousand years and more, i think a hundred suffering will be enough
You might be suffering now, but if you just continue and move forward you'd be able to laugh again from all of this (as said by nuriko-chan)

+If you loss to a game this would teach you that everyone has a turn to everything, its your win today its your loss tomorrow, and it also teaches you how far hard work can go

+If youre irritated by some things it teaches you to be patient, it takes time, you can go throught it and you can solve this matter

+If youre from a broken family,where things always go wrong inside (or even outside) the house it teaches you that when your turn comes, you should give your family a better future give them all the happiness that you did not reacieve as a child

+If youre broke it teaches you to be thrifty, to cherish every ounce of money, coz money is made from hard work and effort (and pls dont be too obsessive over money It Is Not Healthy!)

+If youre rich and youre disgusted by those poor people who only have 20pesos to go to school,dont be like that, what would you do if you were that person, understand that not every person is as lucky as you are, and this teaches you that you should honor your parent( and also your other siblings) for bringing you up right

+And last , always remember that everything happens for a reason (you dont meet the right person at the wrong time, and you dont meet the wrong person in the right time) Everything has an explanation, and it is for you to find them all out, things like this teaches you to learn

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.


--Corinthians 13:4-7



- If patience and kindness are active, you’ll have peace.

- When love displaces jealousy, you’ll have unity.



- If you refuse to be rude, you will build up each other’s self esteem.

- As love increases selfishness decreases.

- Forgiveness becomes normal.



-Communication is hearing, understanding and speaking…

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