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Wednesday, September 13, 2006


   Over the those hills is the vast sea....
I have a few minutes to get on again. I did not get to explain why I have been so busy in my last post. See my wife and I have our anniversary on the thirteenth and we have been planning our final details for departure.SmileyCentral.com


The other really big thing is we have been doing our best to support two people on opposite sides of a situation. They are my wife's sister and my best friend, who are married. My wife's sister wants to do a trial separation because of all sorts of crazy notions in her head. My best friend/brother in law is trying to be supportive of her decisions at the cost of his own feelings. I feel bad for them both because of this whole thing. She wants to be happy and doesn't think she can be while staying with him because of some personal mental issues she has. He wants her to be happy, but wants to, himself be happy with her.
I have known my best friend twice as long as I have known her. In so, I know alot about his past. So what makes this hard for me is trying not to be bias. To be objective, not subjective. He has gone through some really terrible times in relationships in the time that he and I have been friends and she is bringing all of those emotions flooding back like the one that Noah prepared his boat for. She came from a bad relationship too, and is still reeling from that and thinks she jumped into her marriage too soon for that reason. So I am really torn here.
My wife and I don't know what to do guys. So we are just doing our best to support both of them.
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Other than that I just wanted to let you all know that I will be gone the rest of the week. So what that means is I will not be able to come visit for awhile again. I am going to go and try to get to all of you before I log off tonight. I hope that you all and will have good fortunes while I am away. Thank you for understanding and for your listening(reading) skills. Catch you laters.SmileyCentral.com








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