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Saturday, June 24, 2006

Baby Daddy Phenomenon
Its been 8 years 11 months and 2 weeks since my daughter was born. And in those 8 years 11 months and 2 weeks I have received maybe about $200-500 from her daddy (this is not from his family, its just the money from him) and he doesn't involve himself in her life the way that she wants.

He is not involved with me besides being friends and his relationship with her is ziltch. Don't know why but can this possibly be attributed to the fact that the parents do not hit them with responsibilty from the day that they have the kids. Sometimes they do but then and again they don't get the picture. My Baby Daddy happens to be one of them, one of the ones that didn't get the picture and here I am today 8 years 11 months and 1 week later, wondering if I could have pushed him to become a better man. I for one was stupid enough to think that he would finally come around and become the father she needed and the man that I wanted him to be.

I think many of us handicap men more so unintentionaly when it comes to kids and I've noticed that in the case of my baby's daddy. For these last 8 years 11 months and 2 weeks he has not paid a definite amount of child support every month. He has not seen her on a regular basis but when he does want her around he feels that we should drop everything we do to accomodate him. I just don't get what he wants when he does nothing to earn it. He does not stay around to gain her love and trust and even sometimes she even is withdrawn from me. Its just crazy to think about how we are supposed to do that for a man. I refuse and finally I think I got things together in my head to make him fight for his child. Or at least I hope that he will. But who knows how he'll react. But its just the kick in the butt he needs. Hopefully next year he'll be on child support or in jail for not paying child support. It's time to step up to the plate....
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