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Friday, December 5, 2003


   Iie!!!!!
I dunno what to do..!!! My best friend just called me last night and told me she's pregnant and getting married... She's only known the guy for 3-4 months! I didn't even know she had a new b/f... I mean this happens all the time, my other best friend is due to have her baby this month, but of, lets say friend 'A', this is NOT expected! I want her to be happy... But I don't think she should jump into this just cuz she's pregnant... I don't know what advice to give her... And that's strange cuz I'm the one people come to for advice. I think maybe I should just be supportive, and let her know I'll be there no matter what. If anything happens I will be there to help, and she knows that. It's just that I don't know the guy... so maybe that's why I'm jumpy... It sounds like I'm overprotective, and I think maybe I am, but we've been best friends for over 10 years, and I don't want to see her get hurt.
It's wierd seeing all my friends getting pregnant, and becoming 'adults'. It's hard to think of them as soon-to-be mothers. And of both of them it's not really expected. It's more expected of me, I mean I've lived with my konyakusha for 2 years and been with him for 3 1/2.... You think I'd be the one most likely to be expecting. But no, it happens to the baby of the group and the 'good girl'. If anyone reads this, can you tell me if you agree that I should just be there for them and not put my foot in? I think that's the safest bet, I mean as I told my mother many times, we need to make our own decisions, and mistakes...
Anyway, sorry to pour my worries all over you, I just need some advice....

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