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Monday, July 23, 2007
I was told to speak my mind and I'm doing it
Hello everyone. Today's post may be a little bit different than what I usually write about. Everyone here may know me as the person who writes funny (or not so amusing, hey everyone's humors are different) antidotes about things around me. Or just generally nice posts about my day or something good that has happened. Well today's post is actually quite different than anything I've written so far.
I have noticed while cruising the MyO that a lot of kids who are younger than me say they have a whole bunch of problems no one can solve or they already hate their parents for X or Y reason. To those people I would like to say "Shut up."
I know that it has been hard for you this past year or the pst few days but if every post has you saying that you hate your parents but you suddenly love them because they bought you something is totally wrong. In no way shape or form should you say you hate your parents. Sure you can dislike them because you think a punishment is unfair but never say you hate them. It's like sticking a knife in their hearts, even if your mother may act cruel or be mean sometimes she still wants what's best for you she just can't express it the way it needs to be expressed. That is how the way she learned it from her mom. If it is a huge problem then try to get help for your parents if they keep doing things that hurt you (physically, mentally, emotionally).
Sure for one I have disliked my parents when I got punished but I still loved them and I never told them once that I hated them because I would or could hate them.
As for the endless amount if problems that seem to crop up every time you post, just try to fix as much as you can if you can and focus on the bright side of everything. Bright sides are you have some place to live, you have food, you have clothes on your back, you have a parent(s), grandparents, or anyone who is taking care of you that loves you unconditionally. So stop whining about something that is already fix stop saying your life sucks because believe me you could have been worser off. If the problems are getting out of your hand don't sit and feel like you can't do anything go and tell someone whoever you trust the most about it. Everyone has problems whether anyone knows about it or not and everyone has someone or a few people to depend on to help them through. So when your friends say we're hear for you stop listening the to things in your head and listen to them. They want to help you so you should tell them what is wrong not wait until the last possible mintue to let anyone know and by them it's already too late to help them. Sometimes after you talk it doesn't seem so big and you can feel like yourself again.0
If I offended anyone, I didn't mean too but sometimes telling the truth this way can offend someone. If I could have done it in a nicer way I would, so again sorry for offending anyone who reads this. Don't worry you won't see anything like this for a while.
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